excuse the grainy picture ... it was taken with a cheap little camera, Christmas Eve 1973 ... i was home from bible college and my little brother had sprouted during my months away ... i'm sure he must have had platform shoes on ... i mean, my 5'2" shouldn't look that small!
my brother and i shared so much in our childhood ... immigrating from Finland, an alcoholic father, the divorce of our parents, mother's re-marriage and 4 younger sisters from that marriage ... then as adults we shared love and concern for our dad ... and his death from cancer in 2001, which entailed a 5 month hospital stay ...
we lived in the same town for 7 years, then leo and i moved back to the prairies ...
that was 15 years ago ...
well - my brother has now officially moved back to the prairies too! it all happened suddenly ... as of thursday, he is only an hour away from us ... in the city!
i am thrilled to bits about it, and thanked the Lord for this kindness ...
i will probably only see him a few times a year - but i love the fact he is near ... :o) ...
A sibling may be the keeper of one's identity,
the only person with the keys to one's unfettered, more fundamental self.
~Marian Sandmaier